Jun
21
2012

True Core Values

A few weeks ago I listened to a great interview Chris LoCurto did with Patrick Lencioni about his new book, The Advantage.  Over the course of the conversation Lencioni shared the story of how one of his clients, Southwest Airlines, dealt with an upset customer.  One of Southwest’s core values is having a sense of humor, which explains why traveling with them is so pleasant.  The customer in question sent a letter to the company’s CEO complaining that a flight attendant’s humorous rendition of the pre-flight safety briefing was not taken “seriously enough” for their liking.  The CEO’s response?  ”We’ll miss you.”  Lencioni then said something profound:

When you have a true core value, you are willing to be punished for it.

Yeah, go ahead and re-read that one.

Several years ago I was sitting in a new attender meeting at a church in the Atlanta area where the Senior Pastor was sharing about the church.  When he finished sharing about who the church was, what it was up to, and why they did things the way they did them, he looked at those of us sitting in the meeting and said “this is who we are, if you are looking for a church that is doing something different, believes something different, or is not headed in this direction please let me know.”  He then picked up a phone book and concluded by saying “because I would love to help you find a church that will be a better fit for you.”

Southwest Airlines believed that sending a form letter with a free drink coupon to the lady who complained would completely compromise who they are as a company and what they are trying to be.  The church in Atlanta knew that doing something solely to make people happy would be the death of their vision… the very reason they existed.

What is so core to YOUR church that YOU are willing to be punished for it?

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About the Author: Matt Steen

Over the last fifteen years I have been a Church Planter, Youth Pastor, Executive Pastor, and now I serve as a Church Concierge with churchsimple.net. I love Jesus, my wife, the Redskins and Capitals and am currently living on Long Island striving to properly pronounce the word G'island.

  • http://twitter.com/ContrarianCP Contrarian Planter

    A very simple one–but hard to execute–is we tailor our music to men. Women make up 57% of the American church. Women are easier to reach and are more willing to engage with the music. Tailoring music to men attracts them more, even though we get negative feedback from women at times for not having women on stage often.

    • http://www.churchthought.com Matt Steen

      I love that!

      So, tell us, how do you pull it off?

  • Jon Perrin

    My mentor, Gerald Brooks, says you grown a church by choosing who you’re willing to lose. It’s worked great for them, and it’s working for us too!

    • http://www.churchthought.com Matt Steen

      Hey Jon! I’d love to hear about who YOU are willing to lose.

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